How do I let men know I am interested without coming across as desperate? How do I become the man who is appealing to my dream girl and how should I pursue her? Where is the best place to meet good Catholics? Today I sit down with Rachel Hoover Canto to answer these questions and more from her new book, “Pretty Good Catholic: How to Find, Date and Marry Someone Who Shares Your Faith.” Rachel and I will discuss the best strategies based on her own courtship experience, common mistakes unique to the Christian dating scene, proven techniques to transmit interest to the opposite gender, healthy physical boundaries, red flags to look out for, whether you should have a 'type' and much more.
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Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:17 Welcome to the new set! 03:15 Lila: You nailed the advice in this book 03:32 This strategy really works 03:44 Welcome, Rachel! 05:44 How to “dial it up to 1” 08:36 Couple met in the parking lot and later married 10:19 We Heart Nutrition 11:10 It only takes one yes to make the no’s worth it… 13:22 What can men do to initiate? 13:55 Women find initiative attractive 14:21 A first date should be simple 14:32 Be concrete with your first date 15:42 Number 1 feedback Rachel heard about Catholic guys… 16:44 Men: Build a well rounded life 17:52 You Don't Have a Type 18:45 Seven Weeks Coffee 20:50 Growing in Self Knowledge 21:17 Others help perfect our self knowledge 22:30 We don't always know what's going to make us happiest and holiest 22:56 How to meet more people? 32:47 Non-exclusive dating? 34:04 Scarcity mindset vs abundance mindset 36:00 Be clear about commitment level 36:15 EveryLife Diapers 38:03 Intentionally Casual Dating 39:08 Physical Expression Should be the expression of an existing relationship 39:20 Should you date around? 41:40 Take up to three months to decide if you’re exclusive 45:15 Red Flags in Dating 47:45 People put up with endless relationships 49:20 When Should we Kiss? Chastity talk 55:40 Physical touch is taboo now 56:20 Many hookups are about craving physical touch 56:55 Most important thing in engagement? 59:35 Thank you EWTN!
